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How to Master First Impressions on Dates: Essential Rules for Men

Navigating the social world of relationships can feel troublesome. You keep getting mixed signals and confusion all over the place. But here is the good news with the right guidance it becomes a walk in the park. Here are 7 rules for men who want to fast-track their way to a successful dates—and beyond.

  1. Unique Compliments

Always give unique compliments to the other person. Make unique compliments about her personality, fashion sense etc.  Do not use commonly used compliments.

Make sure its authentic and real

  1. No Job Interview Questions

Avoid boring questions like “What do you do for a living?” or “What are your hobbies?” If you have to ask them, spread them out through the conversation.

Make sure your questions are more fun and interesting. They should make her feel valued and loved.

Eg: If you could have any three superpowers, what would they be?

If you could time travel and be rich in that time, what period would you go?

If you had one day to live, what would you do?

If you could have dinner with any three people, dead or alive, who would they be and why?

What’s the most adventurous thing you’ve ever done?

  1. Past Relationships Are Off-Limits

Don’t discuss your past relationships on a first date. If she asks, keep it vague and redirect the conversation back to her. You don’t wanna get into your past trauma now. Keep it fun and relaxing.

  1. Keep It Light and Funny

Ensure she laughs every few minutes. Humor is your best ally when it comes to making a good first impression. Be funny and charming. Some improv comedy shows can help be out when it comes to being funny and charming.

  1. Outcome Independence

Be fully outcome independent. You should not about how the date ends or if you see her again. This mindset will make you more confident and relaxed.

This also makes sure you are not needy and desperate. Cultivate outcome independence.

  1. Maintain Eye Contact and a smile

Good eye contact shows confidence and interest. A genuine smile beats trying to act cool. Jared Psych Lawrence a dating coach has a good book called the psychology of Modern flirting. I recommend checking it out for more tips and information  regarding how to talk and make a good first impression.

  1. Dress Sharp

Dress well. Your appearance matters. The way you present yourself has a huge impact on how you look. Anna from the daily flirt has a special program just dedicated to teaching men how to dress up and be fashionable. I recommend checking it out.

Conclusion

Try these rules and see the results. These 7 rules are part of a system designed for quick, inexpensive first dates that lead to a second date and more. If you’re a beginner, stick to these rules. They’ve worked wonders for many men, and they can work for you too.

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